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Ride Your Horse!

All riding is training, but not all training is riding.  If you want to know how your riding is going, take a look at how it has influenced your horse.

Maybe you’ve known this forever, or maybe you’re like me, and you had an epiphany that really changed the way you see riding.  But somewhere between begging for pony rides and longing for piaffe the realization sinks in.  Training can be done from the ground or mounted.  But riding…is riding. You’re up there trying to make things work, for better or worse.  You’re training that horse, like it or not.

There’s a reason my Mom’s slogan is Ride Your Horse. It really is the way to improvement – for your riding and hopefully for the horse as well.  Ride your horse –meaning often and well.  And you will know if you are improving or not by what you get back from your horse.

Of course, there are those horses that can have a 2 year old, a disabled rider, or even a complete lunatic on board for a lesson without batting an eyelash or learning bad habits.  These horses know they are putting up with teaching, are few and far between, and are selfless angels.  Zac is one of them.

The other 99.9% of horses in this world cannot be ridden without being influenced.  The epiphany is that good riding does not exist in a vacuum.  It always influences and improves the horse.  There’s no way to say to a horse, “hey, today doesn’t count because I need to work on some stuff”.

“A horse has no future. It cannot greet the sun and say today will be better. It can only reflect upon days of past experiences. It is our job to create a positive past.” ~ Karen West

Horses know what has happened, and they think they know what is going to happen next based on their past experiences.  This is why re-training is so much more difficult than having the correct training applied in the first place.  You have to convince a horse that things can be better without them having a concept of the future.  That means lots of little moments of improvement that slowly make up a new past.  This is not a quick process.  This is the boat most of us who aren’t backing and training babies find ourselves in.

It’s your riding that either creates moments of increased capability (and if you’re lucky, brilliance) or hinders the horse and stunts further progression as an equine athlete – both mentally and physically.  Each error on your part that produces confusion or pain takes you back three steps, while each positive experiences takes you forward one, hopefully.  Those steps will be small in number until you make those positives steps a much bigger part of the horse’s memory and past.  Never forget how important they are and always reward the horse for them.

The point is that when you realize that you are the catalyst for the horse’s development, the goal of improving your riding takes on a new meaning.  Suddenly it’s more than looking in the mirror to see if your leg is underneath you (still important), asking an observer on the ground if your shoulder-in is correct (still important), or thinking your horse’s head position is the most important thing (come on, you know better by now!).  It’s the way your riding affects the horse over time.  As your rides add up, week in and week out, how has the horse changed?  Keep a journal, write this stuff down.

“If a horse becomes more beautiful in the course of his work, it is a sign that the training principles are correct.” ~ Alois Podhaisky

If you can look back and honestly tell yourself that your horse has become a better athlete, has developed the correct muscles, and is progressing according to the training scale, then guess what?  The odds are pretty good that you have also become a better rider during that time.  On the other hand, if your horse suffers from stiffness or other physical ailments not otherwise explained, if you aren’t seeing the correct muscles develop, and if your horse shows irritation and lack of a work ethic…it’s time to look in the mirror.  And then head back to square one.  Don’t think of it as a step backwards.  Think of it as the only way forward from where you are.

This realization that the path to becoming a better rider is to put your skills to the test through the training of a horse has made me turn down offers to ride horses once a week.  The sheer frustration that would result from not being able to consistently help the horse (especially when the horse is ridden by a much less skilled, non-classical minded rider several days a week) would be too much.  I couldn’t fairly ask very much of a horse like that, and I want to practice asking. What I get by asking tells me so much, as the weeks roll by.  Not that a leisurely trail ride on a loose rein isn’t fun, but put me on a horse I know and have a history with so it’s a fun break for both of us, not a meet and greet.

I was really lucky that during my 6 weeks in MI not only did I get to ride Wilt and Zac and several other horses, but my friend Cindy let me make her horse Misty my project.  While I wait for Trixie to become mine, I had been simply dying for a project horse.  Misty had an injury that put her on stall rest for about 7 months, so we were starting all over with her and Cindy was a bit nervous.  Misty is a true mare and can be intimidating.  Don’t let the picture below fool you.  :-P  I rode Misty 5-6 times a week, and we started slowly as she was very out of shape.  Lots of short sessions in the beginning, most of which I had my Mom put me on the lunge line.  Then progressively longer sessions, adding more and more figures and even riding in our outdoor arena (which is a bit deep) for longer sessions to help her get stronger.  It did take my Mom getting on towards the end to ask her for more for me to see that she could do more than I was asking.  The bad part was why the heck didn’t I know or feel that, but the very good part was that I was erring on the side of asking for too little than too much.  Before I left, she was looking like a little baroque horse and was soft and light.  There’s still so much to work on and improve, but I can’t even begin to explain how much confidence getting her that far gave me in myself.  Thank you Cindy.

Riding several horses is also a big part of getting better.  I’m also lucky that Wilt puts up with me and essentially gives me a lesson every time I ride him.  I feel like I can help and improve all the other horses I am able to ride, but Wilt is way beyond anything I could teach him – for now!  (And I’m so lucky my Mom lets me ride her special horse – thank you Mom!)  Basically Wilt is saying “keep up with me, keep up with me!” the entire ride, but it lets me practice things I can’t practice on other horses and Wilt expects you to ride so if you don’t ask for something correctly, you don’t get it.  The best part is, Wilt is brutally honest so you do get what you really asked for….as evidenced by my frequent walk-to-canter attempts that ended in half pass. 

I don’t want to dismiss lessons.  Working with a trainer that is willing to go the distance and follow classical principles is essential as well.  It especially helps you from continually doing the wrong things because you think they’re right or you don’t know that you’re doing them.  Obviously I haven’t discussed the unique needs of different levels of riders.  Most of what I’ve said doesn’t apply to beginners.

For the rest of you, get out there and become better riders.  Ride your horse – often and well.